So, my friend and I have been playing on a server I've hosted for about a week. I can't exactly say when the problem arose, but I think when I was trying to see if I could load different maps with -load command. Recently, the port I had the server running on doesn't work anymore (my friend can't connect, nor do I see it on the server list anymore, but I guess the latter doesn't necessarily mean it's down), and when I choose a port my friend can connect to, he gets the state of the game where the server's game is paused for him and the building's tiles are the construction lot tiles. Can someone kindly inform as to why this pausing is happening or how to remedy it?